Come Back Stronger: Lessons Beyond Physical Recovery
In leadership, we often speak of strength. But what kind of strength sustains us through crisis and brings us back not just intact, but evolved?
After undergoing triple bypass surgery earlier this year, I was told: “You’ll come back stronger.” I initially assumed it meant physical resilience. But I’ve since discovered: the strength that truly transformed me was not physical. It was spiritual, emotional, relational, and purposeful.
Here’s what I learned on the road to real recovery, lessons just as relevant to leaders navigating change and uncertainty:
1. Spiritual Strength: Anchor in Faith
The Qur’an reminds us, “Allah does not burden a soul beyond what it can bear” (2:286).
This verse kept me grounded. Survival wasn’t a given; it was a divine mercy. That clarity renewed my sense of purpose.
2. Emotional Recovery: Honour the Inner World
Early post-surgery, I couldn’t even dry myself with a towel. But I found light in the small things: birdsong during breakfast, folk music, even Star Trek. These weren’t distractions, they were emotional lifelines. Leaders need such lifelines too.
3. Mental Recovery: Measure Progress by Intention
Cognitive fatigue was real. I couldn’t finish a book. But I marked small wins:
- From 300 steps to 300 meters
- From praying seated to praying standing
- From silence to deep, meaningful conversations
As with leadership growth, transformation is incremental.
4. Relational Healing: Let People Support You
Family and friends weren’t just caregivers. They were catalysts. Their presence reactivated my will. Just like in leadership, relationships accelerate recovery.
5. Purpose Reset: Redefine Impact
I thought I’d retire. Instead, I chose to rewire further. I now aim for less quantity, more meaning. Not just to work, but to work with impact.
The idea of “coming back stronger” now carries new weight. For me, it’s not about Superman-like stamina. It’s about recalibration. As leaders, it’s not about bouncing back to what we were. It’s about stepping forward into who we could be.
Strength is not just muscle. It’s meaning.
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— Personal lessons from surgery
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