In this Part 2 of my ongoing “Fire and Water” dialogue with my buddy, we explored what happens after the venting.
We often stop there, at the catharsis. But leadership demands something more. In moments of emotional vulnerability, there’s a call to:
2. Vent honestly
3. Then, be responsible
Read More “Fire, Water, and the Next Step: A Leadership Framework in 3 Steps”
In our work with leaders and teams, we often emphasize clarity, alignment, and action. But leadership is not just about strategy, it’s also about emotional presence.
In this short conversation, my professional buddy and I explore what happens when conflict surfaces and tempers flare. Instead of suppressing the moment or rushing in with fixes, there is wisdom in allowing.
Read More “Leadership in Heated Moments: Be the Water, Not the Fire”
Today’s Friday khutbah (sermon) focused on ikhlas (sincerity) and gave the antithesis of ikhlas: tiga serangkai penyakit hati (trio of diseases of the heart) namely riya’ (showing off), ‘ujub (self-admiration) and suma’ah (seeking praise).
“I would rather have questions that can’t be answered then answers that can’t be asked.” — Richard Feynman
Some of us work best when we’re surrounded by good questions, not just quick answers.
If you’re a coach, consultant, trainer, mentor, advisor — or someone who serves through your listening and thinking — this may just be for you.
My regular catch-up with a buddy shifted into unexpected gears – from “pre-surgery” to “resurgence.”
“I’m not a recovering man,” I said, “I’m a resurging man!”
You’re welcome to my (virtual) co-working space:
https://space.edneylearnx.com/hasansaidin
Working solo can be tough — and sometimes, just knowing someone else is working alongside you (even silently) can make all the difference.
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Photo credit: image from webpage of Trello
After a 3-month hiatus, I’ve been easing back into work over the past couple of weeks. It feels good to return, and to gradually get the engine running again.
There’s quite a bit waiting in the backlog, but I’m grateful for the recordings, summaries and documentation from before the break. They’ve made it much easier to pick up where I left off and shape a revised plan.
Watch the trailer above. A short look at my recovery journey.
To watch video of the full session, click this related post:
https://www.rubah.my/the-bypass-files
Read More “The Bypass Files: A Personal Reflection on Recovery and Purpose”
